Hi, I’m Tari.  Creator of the Closeness podcast and founder of

Over 50,000 people listen to my material to learn how to be intimate and to live a sensually rich life.

That could mean more pleasure and connection with your partner, finding your dream partner, finally understanding how men or women work, or mastering your inner psychology 


I take a different approach when it comes to intimacy

I don’t make you feel bad for not knowing.  Instead, I take a very warm and sensual approach to sex that’s pro women, pro men and pro pleasure. 

I don’t waste time.  Like my short form podcasts, I am effective, to the point, and full of useful information you can actually do something with. 

I don’t believe in lecturing about statistics, research and long winded stories.  Instead I show you how to focus on how attraction works and what you can do about it.   

I give away 80% of my material. I aspire to make that free material better than anyone else’s paid stuff can come close to. 

In addition to sharing Closeness with you through the podcasts and Closeness Coaching, I’m also an acrobat who specializes in inversions and holding people overhead in a handstand.  Follow me @ElegantAcro – it’s a powerful way to share Closeness with others. 

With a good deal of travel under my belt, language has always been a passion.  I can manage a touch of Russian and French, but Spanish and Italian come easily.  Favorite travel destinations include Maldives, Necker Island, Abu Dhabi, Dubai, Kauai, Estonia and Paris.  

I’ve always shared as special connection with animals, especially with my cat. This photo is from Sir Richard Branson’s Necker Island where I had the chance to play with lemurs, iguanas and toucans.