Where shall we begin?

Get Closer in 3 steps:

Get un-stuck by filling out our intake form below and start with 1-3 incentivized Closeness Coaching sessions.
Get immediate results and apply new tools as early as the night of your first appointment.
Watch the work speak for itself and learn how to be more intimate. If you love the results, stay on board for more excitement and fun.

How much does it cost?


Your first 1-3 visits are at a discounted rate.

$ 150
Per Session
  • Simply fill out an intake form to get started
  • No commitment, no obligation
  • Explore up to 3 sessions to see if we're a good fit
  • Pour this investment into your program if you wish to move forward

4 Month Program.

$ 800
Per Month
  • Text message and voice memo support throughout the week
  • 4 weekly visits. See results or shift in emotions in as little as one session
  • $300 off if you pay for all 4 months
  • Virtual or in house visits available*

I take a different approach when it comes to intimacy

I actually show you how it’s done

 By focusing on what works and  interacting in real time with you and your partner, change happens at an order of magnitude that is significantly greater than traditional methods.

Restore physical and sexual attraction right in front of your partner and get real time feedback on what excites them. 

Whether you’re monogamous, consensual non-monogamists or transitioning from one to there other, I can help.

We really get right into it

Your particular situation is extremely sensitive. Your story may be highly specific, graphic or vulnerable. Many people are not equipped to help because their answers come from research and training only rather than real work experience.  

I am your personal advocate and take a warm, empathetic, direct and sensual approach to sex that’s pro-women, pro-men and pro pleasure.  There is no discrimination. 

We don’t waste time

 Like my get-down-to-business podcast, we will be effective, efficient, and to the point.  You will leave your first session with things to apply immediately to help you and your partner shift into a better feeling space. 

Guidance comes in the form of information and exercises you can actually do something with. If anything isn’t clear, I can, with consent,  show you in detail.  

I give away 80% of my material

I create content that lasts a lifetime, not click bait intended for single use consumption.  The podcast is 100% free and is better than other  paid content available today.

 You will learn more from one of my free episodes than paying someone else.  The podcast is always growing and evolving to handle and address client specific needs. 

I invested in Tari’s is coaching package as a gift to myself and my wife as we were nearing our anniversary.  When we met with Tari for the first time, we were a bit anxious and uncertain of what he would ask and how we would feel. Within the first five minutes we were put at ease and could tell that Tari was a classy, heart-centered individual who has a passion for helping couple’s experience closeness and connection at the highest level!

My wife and I began to share stories of how we met, our history of ups and downs and our questions. Tari was a gentleman and guided the conversation into areas that we could explore safely while still touching on topics that we otherwise would never have had the boldness to do by ourselves. I have experienced many more coaching sessions since then and will continue to do so as I am seeing amazing results in my marriage.  

Now my wife and I continue to discover things about each other that we’ve never known, even after years of marriage and multiple children.  I am finding that we are getting that spark back into our marriage that we had before we had children. 

I would highly recommend anyone reach out to Tari for an open, candid conversation to see how they can improve their Closeness connection within their current relationship or to ready themselves for an emotional connection when they welcome in their next romantic relationship.

Evan, San Diego

Coaching for couples

An interactive experience

What’s weighing you down?

Has the sex gone away or has the passion died down but you want to stay together and get some excitement and lust back in your life? 

Is it an emergency and you don’t know what to do but you don’t want to break up?  When couple’s are at the end of their rope, that’s when I get the call.  I can help but the earlier you get help, the sooner you can get out of pain.  

Maybe you need help mediating a sensitive subject? I can get you through it. 

Maybe you want to transition from being poly to being monogamous or vice versa.  Closeness offers powerful solutions to spark attraction,  and actually understand what your partner so badly needs.

If you both have lost your way, I can get you back on the right path. 

Get easy approaches to rediscovering the erotic and finding desire again, even with a busy life.

Coaching for women

profound insight and healing

Do you actually enjoy having sex with your partner? How long has it been since it’s been really good?  Are you comfortable with true intimacy or do you worry too much about what your partner is thinking? Do you try to change but find yourself feeling resentful or empty when he doesn’t?  Intimate relationships extend far beyond the bedroom and are built on a platform of trust, honesty, and communication.   

 Would you like to learn more about what you like and how to ask for what turns you on?  As a woman you understand subtlety and this is not a language men speak very often but I will help you when your words get lost in translation.

You deserve to feel ravished, adored and cherished.  You have more power than you may think!  Whether it’s reshaping the way you approach intimacy, finding your self confidence again, or just learning how to do it better to have hotter more liberating sex, I’ve got your covered. 

Coaching for men

Become the man you want to be

As men we rarely have a safe space to get real help.  We often can’t speak about why we’re hurting and that leads to not getting our own needs met and fearing our partner. What you want matters too. It’s not just about making sure you have a happy partner or pleasuring her. You both can get your needs met  in a way that doesn’t feel compromising. 

As men, when you’re hurting, or angry… when you want to cry or need to deal with your fury, that’s when you bring it to your coach! You do this BEFORE having that conversation with her.  Learn what it truly means to be her rock so her attention remains zeroed in on you and only you.  

 Life is not exclusively about  keeping her happy.  That’s her job.  It’s about learning to show up as the man you want to be while making time for the other areas in your life that matter, such as your health and wellbeing.  

We do this in a way that keeps her coming back for more without losing yourself in the process.



Heightened communication and presence

The way you hold and carry yourself in intimate situations so you are heard and felt while also being sensitive to your partner's needs is essential. We can transform your body language so that you feel more confident and sexually receptive as a partner.

Feel deeply into your partner

Not with your brain but with your whole body. Not calculating and methodical, but open and receptive. Using your senses to feel, sense, touch, and taste your partner, I'll teach you all about the domain of the erotic. It doesn't flourish in the suffocating space of control, knowing everything about your partner and having security... it needs room to breathe.

Sensual, sensitive touch

Teasing. Playing. Starting slow then ramping up to the perfect intensity that drives your partner wild... Learn about healthy dominance and aggression, or how to be delicate and soft. Learn to know when to amp it up and when it's just enough.

Powerful sexual chemistry

When your partner feels deeply aroused by you simply by being in their presence, no words are required. Yes, I can teach you eroticism and how to spark great chemistry!

Quality of Life

Gourmet cooking, interior design, luxurious minimalism and life coaching