Frequently Asked Questions

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How can I stay up to date on all things Closeness?

It’s easy, just scroll to the bottom of any page on this site and enter your email! This will allow you to stay close to us. 

How can I support your podcast and how does Patreon work?

Patreon is a great way to easily show love and support for this podcast and any artist who’s work you admire.  It’s simple to get started and once setup, simply shows as a reoccurring contribution on a monthly basis. Rather than giving a large sum of money all at once, you can show you appreciation month after month with a contribution amount from $5 to $15,000.

Why become a Closeness patron?  Because it allows us to continue to create  great content on a regular basis and helps bring people closer around the world. An enormous amount of time, energy and love goes into creating these podcasts and sometimes one episode alone can take twelve hours of editing just to get it right.

When you contribute to something you believe in, you make the world a better place and your sense of contribution feels great on the inside. On top of all of that, many of our Patreon tiers offer different rewards as well .

The podcast is free, and will always provide provocative, profound and  information on sexuality and intimacy.  We invite you to ask yourself, isn’t it worth the cost of one dinner if only one episode makes a measurable difference in your life?


I’m single. Is Closeness still relevant to me?

If you plan on ever interacting with a man or woman again,  this content is absolutely relevant. In fact you’re in the best place you can be to listen to the Closeness podcast or get coaching because you get to work on yourself before meeting someone. This drastically increases the chances of the person you meet being a better match to who you are and what you’re looking for in life.

How can I get my intimate question answered on the Closeness Podcast?

That’s what our podcast is all about!   Simply click on the Get Closer link on the top of the page or click here then choose the package called, “Ask a question for the Closeness Podcast” or choose the rush option.

I don’t have an iPhone.   Can I still listen to your podcast?

Of course you can. You can tune in on any phone, laptop or desktop, right here. Just click on the Podcast link at the top of the page.

You can also listen to it on Stitcher, Google Play, Pandora, TuneIn, iHeart, Deezer, Spotify, YouTube or in a Tesla:  Click one of the links below at the bottom of any page or search for Closeness on your favorite app.

How can I collaborate with you on an upcoming podcast episode? 

Send us an email to setup a phone conversation.  If you’re articulate, insightful  and well versed on a subject it’s likely we can collaborate and make an episode together.


How does in person or online coaching work

You can simply fill out an intake form found at the bottom of every page and we can schedule you to come in.  You can also begin listening to the Closeness podcast to get help that way.  Either way, we can get started directly at my office in San Diego or online.  You can choose whether to come with your partner or alone first. 

If you live outside the city or country, or prefer to connect online you can get help over video chat, FaceTime, over the phone or even via voice notes. 

How does one person come to know so much about sex?

 It’s a great question and I get it a lot, pun intended. Hundreds and hundreds of case studies, a lifelong commitment to wellness, authenticity and understanding human nature and desire, a tremendous care love and respect for women and people as a whole… I am forever intrigued by what we are capable of as humans and also am a deeply empathetic person who enjoys seeing others thrive. 


You most certainly will, yes. I am not a sexological bodyworker and there is generally no physical contact during sessions. If you or your partner asks for a demonstration or something that requires touch, consent is requested from everyone in the room before proceeding to touch a shoulder or hand for example. 

how much are coaching sessions?

Pricing is very straight forward. Generally speaking Monday – Friday from 10-4 sessions are $150. Before and after that time and on weekends, sessions are $200 per session.  If I travel to you within a 10 mile radius, sessions are $250.  Generally coaching sessions run around an hour. Please let me know if you would like to leave room for a 90 minute session or longer. 


Can I hire you for voice over work?

Absolutely and I encourage it.  I’m available for commercial, promo or voice over work and can travel when needed.  Contact me directly via social media or at the bottom of any Closeness page. 


Movement has always been a central part of my life.  As such, dance, gymnastics, yoga, breathe work, acrobatics and handstands play a large role in both my physical practice and coaching practice. Couples can easily move in and out of coaching sessions that incorporate fun activities from all of these activities. 

Gourmet cooking lessons, luxurious minimalism and clutter clearing, plus organization and interior design are all options as well with private coaching.