How many times have you changed your mind?  Perhaps you didn’t desire someone at first you later found yourself wanting them?  You said you were attracted, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly something switched.  As a general

Rejection isn’t easy for anyone because it leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining

Welcome to another 90 minute exploration about money and sex!  In this chapter we dive into over 25 more points to discover whether a man or woman should pay on the first date including:  What happens when the woman makes

One of the best parts of closeness is great sex!  After a great deal of positive feedback from the episode “A sensual rampage of appreciation,” Tari is back with another guided sensual meditation.  Make sure you’re in a place where

In this two part episode, host Tari share’s some thought provoking and racy thoughts about who should pay and why.  He draws on several personal experiences that have helped shape his views over the years and gets very personal towards

This is one intimate and sexually explosive episode. Understanding how, when and why a woman gets extremely turned on is tricky business and in this episode we’ll unravel the 10 phases most women go through as they get more and

So much of what we learn about Closeness is what not to do and this episode jumps right in to all of that. Then we’ll uncover the five sure fire ways to figure out if a woman is really in

Open any self help book to discover the phrase, “communication is the key.” But do we in fact know how to communicate?  Are we shy? Do we say what we mean? Are we a great listener?  Do we practice non-violent

We all have the capacity to make things work, but are long distance relationships worth it? If you’ve been in one yourself or are in one now you know how challenging it can be without regular visits.  In this episode

Traveling is one of the world’s favorite ways to experience life, culture and romance.  In this episode we interview newly turned twenty one, Marisa Vogiazi about world travel, sex and romance.  Topics discussed include: Traveling alone vs with a partner.

By default your answer is probably of course, but is that what’s really going on when sexual attraction is involved?  This podcast takes a profound look at the favors men do for women to bargain for their friendship, as well

In the final episode of deadly sins of online dating we discuss: Filler words to make your partner jealous: out with friends, doing this thing Being boring. Not answering direct questions. Getting offended that the man was “too” this or

The next series of deadly sins of online dating include: Looking approximately 40% worse in person  Saying what you “don’t do and won’t do” and being utterly disagreeable Using endless excuses and not committing to a date Using snapchat and

The online dating world is a bit like the wild, wild, West.  For some, it’s almost a dirty little secret that we don’t discuss with anyone but our closest friends.  How many apps are you on?  Which ones specifically and

Being close with other starts with caring for yourself and knowing how to keep yourself in alignment. In this episode we discover the power of presence. This alone can dramatically improve your life. We’ll then look at physical activity that

In this action packed episode we’ll discuss more than twelve mistakes you want to avoid when communicating with others. Here’s a taste of what’s in store: Unabashed over exaggeration Erroneously flinging around psychological and clinical terms about others Minimizing other

Do you know what gets you really turned on? How about what puts you in that space of pure unadulterated sexual desire? We do, and in this episode you’ll discover why knowing can better your life in ways you never

This is part of an interesting new series on how to recognize bad manners and behavior and what to do about it, regardless of your gender.  It’s easy to tell when someone is flat out rude but what does psychological

Brianna discusses real fears in today’s world such as erectile dysfunction, masturbation and consent. Where can we go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? You already know you can get Closeness Coaching wtih us at www.getcloseness.com, and now

What does it mean to be demi-sexual and how does this affect online dating? What does it take for someone like Sarah to get aroused? Sarah shares her story as well as her why she made a major life decision

This powerful episode explores the roles of leading and following in dance and how that translates to relationships. We’ll discuss why women who trust and follow in dance can also experience better sex and intimacy. Then we look at how

Briana Gibson is a talented social dancer.  In this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs she breaks down the art of communicating through social dancing.  A lot can be learned by moving with someone for three minutes and in this episode we’ll discuss

Asking for what you want Do you ever wonder why women don’t try again after initiating sex or intimacy but once? We’ll explain how women internalize rejection and what both partners can do about it. We’ll then break down how

Do you have a sense of how much sex you want? Do you refuse to quanitfy it? What are your thoughts on who should initiate sex after you’ve slept together a few times? These are big questions that eventually lead

We are as passionate about our hobbies and activities as we are about our relationships. For some this borders on obsession and infatuation, while for others it’s as important as religious beliefs and whether or not to vaccinate our children.

To get anywhere with your partner, we must first accept that both men and women are not mind readers. We can be very intuitive and sensitive, but it’s destined to fail when we expect someone to just know what turns

Deep listening is about tuning into your partner with your whole being so that you can give each other a more satisfying sexual experience. This is a potent form of intimacy that can really set the tone to make the

There’s no greater gift than when a woman is all-in and has chosen you. You can see it in the way her eyes sparkle and in her actions. She wants you and it feels fantastic! But how do you make

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Yet they can be avoided simply by recognizing early warning signs. But why do we ignore them so readily? In this