You’ve shared some amazing time together and now you’re ready to take things to the bedroom. Yes, logistically we all know “how” to have sex, but do you know how to navigate through being with someone new for the first

Have you ever been accused of playing games or not being up front? Most of us struggle with three simple words: I’m not interested. This one sentence alone can save you time and heartache. If we’re being honest, a lack

Welcome to 2020 and welcome to season two of the Closeness Podcast! To start the New Year off with a bang we’re diving in with a sexually explicit episode that covers fifteen steps to giving a woman a phenomenal experience

Exposing your sexual health and history to someone new isn’t easy. Getting tested, asking a partner about their past and vulnerably sharing your feelings is also difficult territory to navigate.  Since most of us feel uncomfortable even thinking about it,

Growing up you may have heard of the sexual response cycle: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution.  We’d like to introduce you to something different. This is an intimate and sexually explosive episode that will leave anyone wanting more.  Understanding how,

How many times have you changed your mind?  Perhaps you didn’t desire someone at first  and you later found yourself wanting them.   You said you were attracted to them, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly something

Rejection isn’t easy for anyone because it leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining

One of the best parts of listening to Closeness is learning how to have great sex!  After so much great feedback from previous sensual meditations, we’d like to offer you another. This time it’s just for her.  Interestingly if men

This is the much anticipated final episode that holds nothing back.   This episode untangles the money mess by sharing articles, statistics, personal references, and even explores whether or not paying for dates is a form of prostitution!  We’ll discuss

In this episode we explore over 25 more points regarding who should pay including:  What happens when the woman makes significantly more financial resources? How do we know when our ego is running the show vs our generosity?  How to

In this two part episode we share in depth thought provoking and racy thoughts about who should pay and why.  Tari draws on several personal experiences that have helped shape his views over the years and gets very personal towards

So much of what we learn about Closeness is what not to do and this episode jumps right in to all of that. Then we’ll uncover the five sure fire ways to figure out if a woman is really in

Open any self help book to discover the phrase, “communication is the key.” But do we in fact know how to communicate?  Are we shy? Do we say what we mean? Are we a great listener?  Do we practice non-violent

We all have the capacity to make something work, but are long distance relationships really worth it in the end?  If you’ve been in one yourself or are in one now, you know how challenging it can be without regular

This epodes is the second part of the previous podcast. It takes the same juicy subject of sex and intimacy but rather than learning about it from a  21 year old, we explore it with a 48 year old mother.

Traveling is one of our favorite ways to experience life, culture and romance.  In this episode we interview newly turned twenty one, Marisa Vogiazi about world travel, sex and her very, very intimate life.  Topics discussed include: Traveling alone vs

Most of us would like to believe the answer is yes or of course! but is that what’s really going on when sexual attraction is involved?  Is someone your true friend or just waiting for you to become single… or

In the final episode of deadly sins of online dating we discuss: Filler words to make your partner jealous: I’m out with friends, I have a friend coming in from out of town Being boring. Not answering direct questions. Getting

The next series of deadly sins of online dating include: Looking approximately 40% worse in person  Saying what you “don’t do and won’t do” without compromise and being utterly disagreeable Having endless excuses for not getting together when you like

The online dating world is like the wild, wild, west.  For some, it can feel like a dirty little secret that we don’t discuss with anyone but our closest friends.  For others it’s a place to hookup and others are

Anxiety and stress can be very difficult to manage, but going out is not always the right answer. Being close with others starts with caring for yourself and knowing how to keep yourself balanced and in alignment. In this episode

Do you know exactly what gets you really turned on?  How about what puts you in that space of pure unadulterated sexual desire? We do, and in this episode you’ll discover why knowing what excites you can give you experiences

Here’s a taste of what’s in store when you tune to over 12 faux pas to avoid when interacting with others: Unabashed over exaggeration Erroneously flinging around psychological and clinical terms about others Minimizing other women and degrading them Exaggerating

This is part of an interesting new series on how to recognize bad manners and behavior and what to do about it, regardless of your gender.  It’s easy to tell when someone is flat out rude but what does psychological

If you haven’t heard the term before, a demisexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction to another until they have formed an either an emotional or intellectual connection with that person most often seen in romantic relationships.  The

Brianna discusses real fears in today’s world such as erectile dysfunction, masturbation and consent as well as how difficult it can be to get help.  If getting one one one help in person is not an option for you, now

This powerful episode explores the roles of leading and following in dance and how that translates into intimacy and relationships. We’ll discuss why women who trust and follow in dance can also experience better sex and intimacy.  Then we look

Briana Gibson is a talented social dancer.  In this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs she breaks down the art of communicating through social dancing.  A lot can be learned by moving with someone for three minutes and in this episode we’ll discuss

Most of us find it difficult to ask for what we want.  Do you ever wonder why women don’t initiate sex or why they stop after trying once or twice?  Today we’ll examine how women internalize rejection and what both

Do you have a sense of how much sex you want? Do you refuse to quanitfy it? What are your thoughts on who should initiate sex after you’ve slept together a few times? These are big questions that eventually lead

We are as passionate about our hobbies and sports as we are about our relationships. For some this borders on obsession and infatuation. It may turn out to be as important as religious beliefs or whether or not to vaccinate

As lovers, we can be very intuitive and sensitive, but it’s destined to fail when we expect someone to just know what turns us on or simply said, to read our mind. Since most of us think we are quite

For a woman, receiving oral sex can be one of the most delicious and satisfying parts of a sexual experience.  It’s also the most sensitive area on her body and unlocking that pleasure is not always easy.  In this two

There’s no greater gift than when a woman is all in and has chosen you. You can see it in her eyes and more importantly her actions.  But how do you keep make sure it lasts?  Just because she’s in

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Yet they can be avoided simply by recognizing early warning signs. But why do we ignore them so readily? In this

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups.  The before during and after can wreak havoc on us for months and years.  Yet they can be avoided simply by recognizing early warning signs. But why do

One of the most difficult parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading to them. Yet so many of them can be avoided simply by telling your partner what’s wrong and what’s not working for you. What a novel

Oh the things we put into our mouths. Our culture insists that the only way to health is through what we eat. We would argue that it’s our thoughts, self talk and overall attitude that matter equally. However, the evidence

Sometimes a woman is ready to do something sexual before you are. Yes, it happens! The result can sometimes create frustration or negative judgment in men. Learning how to sensually navigate this when it comes up is not only important,

Self love and “touching yourself” is an interesting proposal. Observe how you feel even while reading the question: “Do you touch yourself?” Some women have no issue being handsy multiple times every day while others rarely touch themselves with no

Helping a woman reach her peak and spill over into orgasm is a very exciting experience. It’s even more so if you’re able to indulge each other in multiple orgasms. But often, men feel they should be rewarded or praised

Today we’re discussing one of my favorite subjects: how to turn a woman on! In this episode we’re going deeper than just sexual stimulation and instead, looking at one of the more subtle cues that women enjoy in men and

Is it safe to talk to strangers? Have you ever been on a date and said, “You don’t know me, you don’t know anything about me!” or “You’re a stranger!” Language shapes our view of the world and it dramatically

The feeling of unrequited love is a difficult and painful subject for everyone. Yet somehow we rarely consider the impact of how the other person feels when we are the ones who shut things down.  It’s an emotional subject that

Are you guilty of telling people you don’t want to waste time?  It’s a demoralizing expression that devalues others and is hurtful by implying that anyone who isn’t your soul mate is of no use to you.  This has the opposite effect

Do you like to tell people how busy you are all the time?  Do you respond to people’s requests to spend time with you with: “Can’t,” “I’m busy,” “It’s a really busy week for me,” or “I’m so busy”?  Do

As soon as you have sex with someone new, a pattern begins and expectations set in.  But those moments before you do it, are so special.  Your thoughts and actions on this subject and in fact how you act during

As soon as you have sex with someone new, a pattern begins and expectations set in.  But those moments before you go for it, are so special.  Your thoughts and actions on this subject and in fact how you act

The Closeness podcast teaches us how to be intimate in the healthiest way possible.  Delivering content with a sensual but classy tone, we tackle and unravel tough questions about dating, sex, relationships and intimacy. Whether your single, married or somewhere